Why did Jesus reject His family on earth?

Jesus did not reject His family on earth. In Matthew 12, He taught that His family included not just His immediate relatives but all who are obedient to the Word of God. The door to closeness to Christ is the obedience of faith; all who submit themselves to the practice of the Word may be as near to Him as His own mother and brothers were.

Matthew 12: 46 While Jesus was still talking to the crowd, his mother and brothers stood outside, wanting to speak to him.

47 Someone told him, “Your mother and brothers are standing outside, wanting to speak to you.”

48 He replied to him, “Who is my mother, and who are my brothers?”

49 Pointing to his disciples, he said, “Here are my mother and my brothers.

50 For whoever does the will of my Father in heaven is my brother and sister and mother.” (NIV)

Only those who hear and obey the Word of God are personally related to Jesus and are a part of God’s family. Faith without obedience is not an option in God’s spiritual family. 

Relationship with Christ surpasses family ties no matter how close they may be.

Parallel Verses:

Mark 3:31 Then Jesus’ mother and brothers arrived. Standing outside, they sent someone in to call him.

32 A crowd was sitting around him, and they told him, “Your mother and brothers are outside looking for you.”

33 “Who are my mother and my brothers?” he asked.

34 Then he looked at those seated in a circle around him and said, “Here are my mother and my brothers!

35 Whoever does God’s will is my brother and sister and mother.” (NIV)

Luke 8:19 Now Jesus’ mother and brothers came to see him, but they were not able to get near him because of the crowd.

20 Someone told him, “Your mother and brothers are standing outside, wanting to see you.”

21 He replied, “My mother and brothers are those who hear God’s word and put it into practice.” (NIV)

Suggested Readings:    

The International Inductive Study New Testament (New    

        Berkeley Version)

Full Life Study Bible, NIV


gotquestions 

What’s the difference in tithes and offerings, and how should churches collect money?

We have a study on our web site called, Financial Faithfulness which will answer some of your questions especially in regard to the tithe. I would also suggest that you carefully read 1 Cor. 16:1-3 and 2 Cor. 8-9 for some basic principles of giving and managing money in the church. As you read these passages, note the strong emphasis against any type of coercion and manipulation and how Paul was extremely careful that all money be handled in a way that would protect both the church and those involved with its collection and distribution from any appearance of mishandling of the funds.

Many, if not most churches pass an offering plate, but in view of the focus in 2 Cor. 8-9 on giving of one’s own accord, not grudgingly or out of a sense of compulsion, but voluntarily from a readiness of heart and mind, I do not believe this is the most biblical method for receiving the gifts of the saints. 

While pastoring churches for some 28 years, I always taught and worked toward some method of giving that avoided this. It usually took some time, but in most cases we did away with passing an offering plate. No matter how you look at it, passing a plate down every row brings with it a certain amount of pressure and is somewhat coercive. A simple way to avoid this is to have a collection box or more placed conveniently where the body of believers may simply drop their gifts or offerings of their own accord as they enter or go out. 

To further the non-coercive element, during the first part of the worship and Bible study time, I would generally make a comment such as, “Giving is a privilege for believers in Christ. It is to be done not grudgingly or out of a sense of compulsion (cf. 2 Cor. 9:7), but out of sense of stewardship having first given oneself to the Lord and out of faith in God’s grace (see 2 Cor. 8:1f). If you are here today without Christ as your personal Savior, we do not ask that you give, but rather that you would consider receiving Christ by faith as God’s gift to you.”

Concerning the managing of the funds, this is part of the responsibility of the church leadership that God has raised up to lead the church. But it must, as mentioned above, be done above board and in such a way that there can be a careful accounting of how much comes in and exactly where every penny is spent. This is needed to protect those involved from temptation and false accusations and to protect the church from problems. For instance, it is wise to always have more than one person count and record the money collected. This is not because we might not trust the person, but to protect them and to demonstrate a commitment to honest and above board behavior.

In view of Malachi 3:10, some teach that all giving should be brought to the local church and from there should be dispersed to the various ministries and missions of the church. This was a part of the OT system under the Law, however, and should not be forced on the church today. No such directions or commands are given in the NT. While believers are responsible to give to their local ministry to meet its needs, believers should be free, under the leading of the Spirit, to give to other needs as they see them and are able to help. 

But for even this there are some principles that guide us. Compare Galatians 6:6-10; 3 John 5-8; Ephesians 4:28; 1 Thessalonians 4:11.

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