I've got a crush on the woman next door - does it mean I'm a lesbian?

Out of nowhere I had this massive desire to kiss her, and I’ve been beside myself ever since

• By Coleen Nolan

  

  Dear Coleen, 
  
  

  I’m a Scottish lady of 36 and I’ve developed a terrible crush on my next-door neighbour. I’m married to a soldier, but we’re separated.
  Our relationship just seemed to fizzle out over the last couple of years – probably because we didn’t see enough of each other as he’s been stationed abroad most of the time.