How can we as a couple handle the sexual cravings before we get married?

By Gary Chapman
Q: “We are a Christian engaged couple growing in our walk with God. However, we are not virgins and this is the first time both us are actively pursuing abstinence under Gods leadership. We have confessed all of our past histories to each other and are pursuing individual accountability partners. Since we’re engaged is it wrong to look forward to the physical stuff? We are both very much attracted to each other and enjoy looking at each other. Our combined love language is physical touch. We know this will be brilliant when we’re married. But right now, it’s pure torture. We both are aware that we’re living the consequences of our previous sin because we know what sex is like. The pure torture bit is this: Lusting over a man/woman equals bad. Lusting over spouse equals excellent. We very much feel stuck in the no man’s land here. Our wedding is 7 months away and the last thing we want to do is elope because we cracked. We want our testimony to mean something for other people struggling with the no sex thing and most of all we want to honor God. Is there anything else we can do to help us remain pure and keep our testimony?

Hormones and lovemaking during pregnancy

It's perfectly safe to enjoy lovemaking during your pregnancy, unless there are medical reasons why you should abstain for a while. Every pregnant woman has the potential to enjoy sex - and some enjoy it more than they've ever done before.

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How much you want and enjoy sex can vary during pregnancy, not only from one woman to another, but also in the same woman at different times throughout the 40 weeks. Most women feel less interested in lovemaking during the first trimester (especially if suffering from tiredness and nausea). Desire generally increases in the second trimester and declines again in the third.

70-YEAR-OLD VIRGIN FINALLY READY TO GET MARRIED AND HAVE SEXVIBE

VIBE Posted May 11, 2012

Here's something you don't read about everyday.

One of the world's oldest walking virgins is finally ready to give love and sex a shot. Meet Pam Shaw: she's 70-years-old and has never slept with a man.

“Now’s the time. I’m ready to take the plunge for the right bloke. My standards are still very high, though," Pam said in an interview. "I’m hoping to bag a tall, dark and handsome millionaire.”

Pam blames her abstinence on her passion for her life-long career as a cabaret dancer. She says for as long as she can remember men have been getting the wrong impression of her because of cabaret's risque nature.