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“The tongue that brings healing is a tree of life, but a deceitful tongue crushes the spirit.” (Proverbs 15:4)
Many have heard or even recited, “Sticks and stones may break my bones, but names will never hurt me”. How false the second part of this old time saying is! Cruel words spoken to or about us do hurt. In fact, many people, regardless of age, remain wounded for years because of hurtful words tossed at them. The power of just one unkind word can crush a person’s spirit for a very long time.
The Bible says, “Reckless words pierce like a sword, but the tongue of the wise brings healing.”(Proverbs 12:18) Cleary, what we say to or about others will either destroy or bring forth life. It is imperative we guard our mouths so that we do not harm others nor bring heartache upon ourselves. For the Bible says we reap what we sow. (Galatians 6:7)
Likewise, what we hold back from saying or doing affects those closest to us. Just as we strive to restrain from talking negatively to others it is imperative we speak positively into people’s lives. All people – loved ones, friends, coworkers, lost souls, Christians and pastors – need to hear encouraging words spoken to them. We may ‘think’ thoughtful things towards others but no one can read what is in our minds. Positive expression and affirmation, regardless of age, is vital.
According to God’s word, we are to speak helpful, encouraging, positive words in order to build others up. If you see someone doing a good job, let him or her know it. If you have not expressed gratitude towards your spouse or friends lately, tell them how thankful you are for all they do. If God has blessed you with children or siblings, let them know that you love them, that you believe in them and are there for them. Life is hard enough! Nobody needs extra sticks, stones, and hurtful words tossed at them.
In Mathew 7:12 Jesus said, “So in everything, do to others what you would have them do to you…” If you desire love and kindness, extend such to others. If you want peace in your relationships, be a peacemaker. Seek to exhibit God’s way in doing things. Simply follow the Golden Rule: do good to others and it will be done unto you.
Dear God, Pardon me for all the ruthless words I have spoken unto others and even towards myself. I know that unwholesome talk is not proper and I ask that You help me keep a watch over my tongue. Holy Spirit empower me to encourager and edify others with choice words that bring healing and growth. In Jesus name, Amen
Questions: Are you still hurt by words spoken or unspoken to you many years ago? Is there someone in your life that you know you need to speak uplifting words to today?
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