Showing posts with label Lesbians. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Lesbians. Show all posts

Thursday, 4 October 2012

Penis Size: It May Be Written in the Length of His Fingers


By MAIA SZALAVITZ | @maiasz


Photo-Illustration by Alexander Ho for TIME; Getty Images

The ratio of the length of a man’s index finger to that of his ring finger may seem like a strange thing to measure, but new research suggests that it’s linked with penis size. The lower the ratio, the longer the penis.

The new study was conducted on 144 Korean men who were hospitalized for urological surgery. A researcher measured the patients’ penile length — flaccid and stretched — just after they went under anesthesia for their operations. A different researcher measured the men’s finger lengths, in order to prevent knowledge of one measurement unconsciously affecting the other.

They data suggested that those with a lower ratio, whose index finger (or second finger, 2D) was shorter than the ring finger (or fourth finger, 4D), had a longer stretched penis length, which is well correlated with erect size.

Sunday, 23 September 2012

Teen Sexting Linked to More Sexual Activity

Teens Not Using Sexting to Delay Having Sex, as Some Have Suggested

By 
WebMD Health News
Reviewed by Louise Chang, MD






"Sexting,'' the sending or receiving of sexually explicit messages or photos by cell phone, isn't an alternative to teens' sexual activity, but is actually linked to it, according to a new study.

"Sexting is part of the new landscape of the sex lives of teens," says researcher Eric Rice, PhD, assistant professor of social work at the University of Southern California, Los Angeles.

While some experts have suggested that sexting is an alternative to having sex for teens, this research suggests otherwise.

Sunday, 13 May 2012

Obama Alienates Christians With Same-Sex Marriage Endorsement

JENNIFER LECLAIRE

Friday, 11 May 2012

44 Percent of Americans Believe Homosexuality Is a Sin, Survey Says


By Katherine Weber , Christian Post Reporter
May 10, 2012|5:24 pm

A new survey conducted by LifeWay Research finds that 44 percent of Americans believe homosexuality is a sin. Meanwhile, 43 percent believe it is not, and 13 percent are not sure.

The survey, conducted among a random sampling of 2,144 adult Americans, asked the question: ""Do you believe homosexual behavior is a sin?" Results indicate that gender, education, church attendance, and religious affiliation affect one's views.
According to the survey, 47 percent of men believe homosexuality is a sin while 40 percent of women believe the same.
Seventy-one percent of those who attend a church service once weekly or more believe it is a sin, compared to a mere 8 percent who never attend a church service.

Barack Obama declares support for same-sex marriage


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May 10, 2012

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Washington - President Obama, in a Wednesday interview on ABC's "Good Morning America," declared his support for same-sex marriage. His statement, coming six months before the general election, raises the political stakes in an issue voters are roughly evenly divided.
Even though the Obama administration's policy has been in favor of gay rights, implementing gay-friendly policies such as stopping the enforcement of the "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" policy on homosexuals serving in the military and declaring it believes that the Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA) is unconstitutional, Obama had equivocated on the politically sensitive issue of gay marriage.

Thursday, 26 April 2012

Girls Kissing Girls: Explaining the Trend

By JEFFREY KLUGER |
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Britney and Madonna did it; so did Scarlett Johansson and Sandra Bullock. And so do women in bars, at mixers, on the street and, increasingly, in private — especially when those women are college students. The “it” is the kiss, of course, and even before Katy Perry celebrated the all-girl lip-lock in song, it was clear that the party was definitely on.

Girl-girl kissing is not new, anymore than boy-girl or boy-boy — or any of the other mix-and-match combinations of genders and numbers in which sexually charged human beings can find themselves. What is new is the openness with which girls are sampling from among their own, and the way the phenomenon has rapidly gone from startling to titillating to, if not quite commonplace, at least not all that uncommon either. (More on Time.com: See a photogallery of the visual history of the gay rights movement)

Wednesday, 11 April 2012

Sex and the Cancer Patient

Married or single, straight or gay, cancer patients face special relationship issues
From Marc Lallanilla
Updated September 18, 2008
About.com Health's Disease and Condition content is reviewed by our Medical Review Board

(LifeWire) - A diagnosis of cancer can add a complex new dimension to the sexual side of human relationships. From the emotional impact of diagnosis to the side effects of treatment, cancer affects sex in a myriad ways. According to the National Cancer Institute (NCI), there are a number of sexuality issues that concern cancer patients: 

Infertility resulting from treatment
Erectile dysfunction
Pain during penetration
Body image
Early menopause
Depression and anxiety
Loss of interest in sex

“It's important to realize how common sexual problems are after cancer treatment,” says Leslie R. Schover, clinical psychologist and professor of behavioral science at the University of Texas M.D. Anderson Cancer Center in Houston.

“At least half of [cancer] patients have some kind of sexual problem,” she says. “They don't tend to go away unless people do something about it.”

Certain cancers, such as prostate, breast, bladder and colorectal, are more often accompanied by sexual problems, and many treatments present their own difficulties — radiation, for example, can damage tissue in sensitive parts of the body.

“With women, radiation in the pelvic region can destroy ovarian function and result in scar tissue,” says Schover. “In men, radiation can be destructive, especially for prostate cancer.”

Couples and Cancer

Married couples whose relationship is strong can usually weather the storms of cancer diagnosis and treatment, notes Schover, who is also the author of Sexuality and Fertility after Cancer. “There is no evidence that there's an increase in the divorce rate after cancer,” she says. “A lot of couples say that the cancer experience made them feel closer.”

Young, single cancer patients, however, face the challenge of finding a partner and planning a family while confronting the after-effects of illness, including battered body image, infertility and mood disorders. In fact, research has shown that anxiety and depression are more common among young adults and unmarried patients. "Anyone who has cancer at a younger age is much more distressed about it,” Schover says.

Gays and lesbians may face discrimination from health care providers. "It's important to remember that not everyone with cancer is heterosexual, and gay people with cancer may have to face rude and insensitive [professional] treatment,” Schover says. “They need to be strong and get support from friends and family.”

And sexual minorities aren’t alone; a 2007 study in Australia found that patients sought information on sexual intimacy but were often frustrated by health professionals’ focus on survival, with less regard for patients' personal relationships or quality of life.

Getting Help

Experts recommend cancer patients seek professional treatment for sexual issues, either with a psychologist or a sex therapist. “What's really needed is an approach offering both counseling and medical treatment,” says Schover, who adds that some patients may avoid getting the help they need due to the stigma that surrounds sexual counseling.

There are a number of medical advances available for patients whose sex lives may be suffering as a result of cancer. Medication, surgery and devices, such as penile implants, can help with erectile dysfunction; hormones, lubricants and vaginal dilators can ease painful intercourse. Many young cancer patients today are preserving their fertility by freezing sperm and, in a newer, still-experimental process, even their eggs.

Patients in a relationship are encouraged to talk with their partner about issues that arise, either with or without a therapist. The NCI recommends couples discuss their concerns and their feelings about the current state of their sex life, and work together to find ways to feel better about sexual activity.

Single cancer patients need to decide when, or if, to tell someone they’re dating about their cancer status. Most experts advise waiting; get to know the person before discussing sensitive issues, such as cancer and sexuality.

In addition to recommending dating sites, such as CancerMatch.com and Prescription4Love.com, Schover also offers the following counsel for those in the dating pool: “Remember that anyone who would reject you because you are a cancer survivor probably isn't someone you'd want to spend a lifetime with. It separates the sheep from the goats.”

Sources:

Leslie R. Schover, M.D. Anderson Cancer Center. Telephone interview, 8 Aug 2008.
"Facing Forward: Life After Cancer Treatment." 01 Nov 2006. Cancer.gov. National Cancer Institute. 6 Aug 2008 <http://www.cancer.gov/cancertopics/life-after-treatment/page5>.
Hordern, Amanda J., and Annette F. Street "Communicating About Patient Sexuality and Intimacy After Cancer: Mismatched Expectations and Unmet Needs." Medical Journal of Australia. 186 (2007): 224-227.
Noyes R. Jr., R.G. Kathol, P. Debelius-Enemark, J. Williams, A. Mutgi, M.T. Suelzer, and G.H. Clamon. "Distress Associated with Cancer as Measured by the Illness Distress Scale." Psychosomatics. 31:3(1990): 321-30. <http://psy.psychiatryonline.org/cgi/reprint/31/3/321>.

LifeWire, a part of The New York Times Company, provides original and syndicated online lifestyle content. Marc Lallanilla is a New York–based freelance writer and editor. He has written extensively on health, science, the environment, design, architecture, business, lifestyle and travel.
http://cancer.about.com/lw/Health-Medicine/Conditions-and-diseases/Sex-and-the-Cancer-Patient.htm

Monday, 19 March 2012

New atheist movie 'The Ledge' evangelizes godlessness


New atheist movie 'The Ledge' evangelizes godlessness 

By Steve Walsh, CNN
Standing on the ledge of a building as a police officer tries to talk him down, a man must make a life-changing - and potentially life-ending - decision: Should I jump?
He’s not suicidal, but he is in trouble. His decision could save two lives, while ending his. It’s the central scene in the “The Ledge,” an independently produced thriller that opens in New York and Los Angeles on Friday.
It’s a story of religion, love and revenge that pits a conservative Christian husband against an atheist who has seduced the religious man’s Christian wife.
The film is written and directed by Matthew Chapman, an outspoken atheist  who says it's Hollywood’s first offering to feature an openly atheist hero in a story about religious conflict. His mission is to help create a more positive image for atheism, which he says is often misunderstood and maligned, for audiences who may otherwise not be exposed to it.
“My hope was to make an emotional appeal,” says. He hopes it’s a “Brokeback Mountain” moment for nonbelievers.
Nominated for best drama at the 2011 Sundance Film Festival, "The Ledge" stars Terrence Howard, Liv Tyler, Charlie Hunnam and Patrick Wilson. Despite the all-star cast, one big question around the film is simply whether American audiences will go to an atheist-themed move.
The film is also available via the website SundanceNow.
Public opinion polling shows that the number of Americans who are unaffiliated with any religion is growing rapidly but that only a tiny minority identify as atheists. A recent Pew poll found that 61% of Americans say they are less likely to support a presidential candidate who does not believe in God, compared with 33% who said they were less likely to support a gay candidate.
"This suspicion about people whose only crime is not believing in things until they're proven seems weird," Chapman said. "To me, there is something much more terrifying about voting for someone who accepts things on faith without any evidence whatsoever."
Polls show that Americans are becoming more accepting of gays and lesbians, and Chapman credits movies like “Brokeback Mountain,” released in 2005, with aiding the trend.
Chapman wants atheists to take a page from that playbook.
“The gay movement has a body of work appealing to the emotions of the body it addresses," he says. "Atheists fail at this."
Chapman is a great-great grandson of Charles Darwin and has written books about the wars between religion and science, including "Trials of the Monkey: An Accidental Memoir."
It’s no surprise that a movie with an atheist hero and a Christian villain is already attracting criticism. Bill Donohue, president of the conservative Catholic League for Religious and Civil Rights, issued a statement this week taking aim at the film.
“People of faith, especially Catholics, are used to being trashed by Hollywood, but they are not accustomed to films that promote atheism,” Donohue said. "It was the Judeo-Christian ethos of America that accounts for the unprecedented levels of justice and freedom enjoyed by non-believers."
In response, Chapman wrote to CNN that "there are many countries where… non-believers have a far better time of it than in America.” Chapman says his target audience for the movie is Midwesterners who fall somewhere between the religious poles of conservative Christianity and atheism.
"I didn't make the film for atheists, but for people in the middle of the country questioning what it's all about," he said.
While the "The Ledge" draws bright lines between religion and atheism, S. Brent Plate, visiting professor of religious studies at Hamilton College, challenged the notion that they’re opposing forces. "What I'm interested in is the religiousness of atheism," he said.
He has yet to see the film but said he hopes it offers overlapping narratives of how people find meaning in life. "It's very sad that our ability to hold a conversation about certain topics is often reduced (to insults)," he said.
Chapman wants to open a conversation about people who don’t believe in God. Whether filmgoers will see his portrayal of Christianity as insulting is yet to be seen.
http://religion.blogs.cnn.com/2011/07/08/new-atheist-movie-the-ledge-evangelizes-godlessness/